It is done! I've bought a new car. It is a dove gray Mercedes ML350. Everyone fits in it. The wheelchair fits in it. It is kind of difficult for me to climb into but hey I usually don't travel when I'm really messed up. We've got a month to decide if it won't work.
I must say I do love buying cars from the high end dealerships. I write a check for an obscene amount of money and they take care of absolutely everything; title, insurance, RMV, plates, inspection. I just show up and drive away. Woot!
So here is a stock photo of the same type of car I just bought. It even has enough room for when I get a full sized wheelchair. Yay!